Sabtu, 13 Februari 2010

What will you do when he/she hates you?

Assalamualaikum, here a story of mine.

Enjoy reading.

Someone (refer to my friend that I know her very well) asked me a question,

Friend
Me

Aimi, what will you do if there's someone hates you so much?

I'll find out the CAUSE or ETIOLOGY of the reason he/she act so.

Does it work?

Yeah, insyaAllah. If the CAUSE is due to ACQUIRED TYPE HATE, then there must be a RISK FACTOR. A factor that induce she/he hates me. It can be DIRECT RISK FACTOR which is because of my words or attitudes or it can be INDIRECT RISK FACTOR which is FITNAH.

What a fun explanation??What will you do then?

The TREATMENT is simple. DEFINITIVE TREATMENT for DIRECT RISK FACTOR is behave yourself and be a better Muslim and never forget to say sorry because it will relieve the PAIN. Meanwhile, for the INDIRECT RISK FACTOR, explain to him/her the TRUTH and be PATIENT

Hahaha..how about when she/he hates you for nothing and for no reason?He/she just hates you at the first moment she/her saw you.

For that particular condition we call it as CONGENITAL HEART PROBLEM. He/she is GENETICALLY hates you and you have no choice to accept him/her as what she/he is. Poor he/her. We pray for she/he to LIVE and have a PEACEFULLY LIFE.

Great explanation, simple guidance but in reality it is not that simple as giving those explanation.

Who say it will be easy?It is hard, but insyaAllah, it is possible. Believe in Him.


Pesan 1 : Alhamdulillah, berguna juga istilah-istilah ilmu perubatan untuk diaplikasikan ke dunia dakwah kini.


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4 ulasan:

  1. Tanpa Nama14 Februari 2010 pada 12:27 PG

    assalamualaikum..
    kak aimi..
    what if kalo kita dah explain dah dkt org tu, ngaku salah dan minta maaf berulang2 kali, tapi still dia benci kita..
    cmna nak buat reaksi?

    kita nak jernihkan keadaan tapi dia xnak. mungkin dia masih xnak terima tapi kita betul2 dah minta maaf ni dan menyesal ngan apa yang jadi..camna eh?
    adakah kita nak tebalkan muka cuba n cuba lagi wpon tau mgkin xberjaya.
    atau biarkan je macam tu.malas dah nak layan..sebab lama2 hati sendiri yang sakit..
    what say u?

    p/s: sory, mcm minta kaunseling la plak..hehe

    BalasPadam
  2. nur_aishah14 Februari 2010 pada 2:31 PTG

    salam Kak Aimi,
    Nice post..keep it up (",)

    BalasPadam
  3. anasolehah_715 Februari 2010 pada 6:39 PTG

    Wa'alaikumussalam adik,
    Wallahualam, pada pandangan peribadi akak, cukuplah adik dah minta maaf dengan dia.

    Di sini akak nampak ada 2 isu, 1 tugas adik untuk meminta maaf dari dia dan tugas dia untuk memaafkan.

    Kalau adik sudah melaksanakan tugas adik, alhamdulillah bagus. Semoga Allah memberkatimu.

    Kalau dia masih berkeras hati tidak mahu terima, itu antara tugas dia dan Allah SWT. Adik sudah melaksanakan tanggungjawab dengan meminta maaf padanya. Minta maaflah dengan seikhlasnya dan berlaku adillah dengan dia. Maksudnya, lepas minta maaf, segala kata-kata dan perbuatan kita harus jernih dari segala dendam.

    Jangan lupa sentiasa doa agar dia terbuka hati untuk menerima diri kita kembali. Allah Pemilik Hati dan Dia lah juga yang membolak-balikkan hati.

    Wallahualam:)

    BalasPadam
  4. anasolehah_715 Februari 2010 pada 6:40 PTG

    Salam Aishah,
    thank you dear.
    Semoga Allah memberkatimu:)

    BalasPadam

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